Congrats on your coming out! I think in hindsight it often proves to be less bad than expected. Hope it’s that way for you too. But please do me a favour and give a shit about the mainstream! If anyone gives you trouble just think of two Gloria Gaynor Songs (I am what I am! I will survive!) and quote my father with his reaction to my coming out: “So what?”
FYI: I’m the complete opposite to you. I’m pansexual – even if I say to other people I was bisexual to spare me long explanations. To each his own but to me the most, I guess.